Tag Archives: Bathrooms

College Visit

College visits are tricky. Nate loves to tag along – there are new bathrooms to see, new restaurants to visit. How Robbie and now Joey feel about Nate joining us for these important sojourns is complicated. They’re fine with him … Continue reading

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Dylan’s Right (Again)

There’s a Bob Dylan song off Together Through Life.  It’s about love and a girl, nothing really to do with our lives, except for the title – “I Feel a Change Comin’ On.” Bob’s craggy voice has been ringing in … Continue reading

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A Question of Balance

When I went into Nate’s bathroom this morning for the daily laundry pickup, I was confronted with a bit of destruction: on the floor was the light cover for his ceiling fixture and, now visible, a loose bulb and flaking … Continue reading

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In Case of Emergency…

Now that we have Nate’s new aide Alexis firmly in place, set to improve Nate’s social ability and put him on a firmer path to independence, I find myself thinking of two stories that, though they took place around 6 … Continue reading

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New York’s Alright (Even If you Don’t Like Saxophones)

I turned 50 last Friday, a milestone that doesn’t sit all that well with me. It’s the beginning of being old, when the only people who say “oh, you’re just a kid” are in their 70’s. To mark the event, … Continue reading

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Apples and Oranges

We took Robbie to Oswego yesterday to start college (Nate, Robbie and I went on a visit there two years ago: http://missionofcomplex.wordpress.com/2010/07/14/road-trip/). It was wonderful to move him in – his records, fridge, etc. – and his room is big … Continue reading

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Goal Books

We’ve been moving out a lot of clutter the last week and Karen found a piece of loose-leaf titled “Goal Books.” It’s a handwritten document laying out the framework for a volume fo 100 goals, 1-2 per page with illustrations. … Continue reading

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Transition in Progress

Nate is missing class today. I told Karen, “We never went to all our classes in college.” Sure, my reason was that I was tired or hung over, but still. Nate has a valid excuse: he’s going to help pick out … Continue reading

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The Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day

Nate and I had a good plan for yesterday: a trip to Albany. He had a few new bathrooms to visit – a McDonald’s in Watervliet, a renovated Dunkin’ Donuts on Western Ave., Subway and Panera on New Scotland Road and … Continue reading

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Impressions of an Art Insider

I had some friends over last night to watch a movie, drink some beer and share a few laughs. Like most mature 50-somethings, we chose X-Men: First Class, which we own courtesy of Nate. Nate buys nearly all of our … Continue reading

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